Monday 6 August 2012

wife in the eyes of....

COPIED ARTICLE FROM I LOVE MUHAMMAD.


To the Prospective Muslim Husband: What is a Wife?

By getting married you are not just getting a wife, you are getting your whole world. 
From now until the rest of your days your wife will be your partner, your companion, and your best friend.

She will share your moments, your days, and your years. 

She will share your joys and sorrows, your successes and failures, your dreams and your fears. 
When you are ill, she will take the best care of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you;
When you have a secret, she will keep it;
when you need advice, she will give you the best advice. 
She will always be with you: when you wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes will see will be hers; during the day, she will be with you, if for a moment she is not with you by her physical body, she will be thinking of you, praying for you with all her heart, mind, and soul;
when you go to sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her; 
and when you are asleep you will still see her in your dreams.
In short, she will be your whole world and you will be her whole world.


The best description that I personally have ever read describing the closeness of the spouses to each other is the Qur'anic verse which says: "they are your garments and you are their garments" (Surah Al Baqarah 2:187). Indeed, spouses are like garments to each other because they provide one another with the protection, the comfort, the cover, the support, and the adornment that garments provide to humans. Just imagine a journey in the winter of Alaska without garments! Our spouses provide us with the same level of comfort, protection, cover, and support in the journey of our lives on this earth as garments would do in the Alaskan journey.

But Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala knows that the human heart is not a static entity, it is sometimes weak and at times dynamic. Feelings can and do change with time. Love may wither and fade away. The marital bond might weaken if not properly cared for. Happiness in marriage cannot be taken for granted; continuous happiness requires constant giving from both sides. For the tree of marital love to remain alive and keep growing, the soil has to be sustained, maintained, watered and nurtured.

Remember that you will be rewarded by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala for any emotions you show to your wife as the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam said "one would be rewarded for anything that he does seeking the pleasure of Allah even the food that he puts in the mouth of his wife"

Never underestimate the importance of seemingly little things as putting food in your wife's mouth, opening the car's door for her, etc. Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam used to extend his knee to his wife to assist her up to ride the camel.

Try to always find some time for both of you to pray together. Strengthening the bond between you and Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is the best guarantee that your own marital bond would always remain strong. Having peace with Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala will always result in having more peace at home.

Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam gave glad tidings for those couples who wake up at night to pray together. The Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam even urged the spouse who rises up first to wake the other spouse up even by throwing cold water on his/her face.

Always try your best to be good to your wife by words and by deeds. Talk to her, smile to her, seek her advice, ask for her opinion, spend quality time with her and always remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam said "the best of you are those who are best to their wives"

Finally, it is common that spouses vow to love and honor their spouses until death do them part. I do believe that this vow is good or even great, but not enough! It is not enough that you love your wife. You have to love what she loves as well. Her family, her loved ones must also become your loved ones. Don't be like my colleague who was unhappy about his wife's parents coming to visit for few weeks. He candidly said to her "I don't like your parents" Naturally she angrily looked at him straight in the eye and said " I don't like yours either"... Also, it is not enough that you love her until death do you part. Love should never end and we do believe there is life after death where those who did righteousness in this world will be joined by their spouses (Surah Al Zukhruf 43:70) and offsprings.


P/S : HOPING FOR SOMEONE LIKE THIS =) WE DO FIRST MUST BE A GOOD AND BETTER GIRL/WOMEN.





Sunday 5 August 2012

a true story. off berangan-angan

assalamualaikum.
A true story as reminder for me n others.jgn berangan smpai ke bintang sangattt. xsemua indAH n manis2 gula belaka.

Copied from IIUM Online - Madam. Fauziah Mohd Noor.

Assalamualaikum dan salam Ramadhan.
Dua semester lepas, seorang pelajar saya (perempuan), pernah mengirimkan sms kepada saya, "Madam, terima kasih di atas segala2nya. Betapa saya ingin memeluk madam seperti memeluk ibu saya, tapi saya malu." Saya membalas sms dia, " Tak pe..insyaAllah, masih ada peluang utk kita berjumpa semester depan. Dan kalau jumpa nanti, peluklah saya kalau awak nak."


Semalam
Dia datang datang ke ofis saya, dengan wajah suram dan inai masih dijari.Belum sempat berbual panjang, dia memeluk saya dengan erat dan disulam dengan tangisan. basah bahu saya dengan airmatanya. Saya bertanya, "Kenapa? awak sepatutnya gembira sebab baru saja bernikah dengan pilihan hati awak." Dalam sedu dia menjawab, "Madam, saya nak bercerai, saya dah tak boleh nak teruskan hidup dengan dia. Dia sangat berbeza dgn dia yang saya kenal sewaktu bercinta dulu"

Astaghfirullah...hancur luluh hati saya waktu itu bagai kaca terhempas ke batu. Tak perlulahsaya sebut kenapa dan mengapa dia hendak bercerai ketika inai masih di jari. Saya cuma ingin menasihati pelajar2 saya, dan rakan2 FB saya yang masih muda, ingatlah pernikahan bukannya trial and error. Pernikahan bukannya ujian amali atau ujian praktikal. Janganlah hanya kerana kawan2 kamu telah bertunang, maka kamu rasa kamu juga perlu bertunang. janganlah hanya kerana kawan2 kamu telah bernikah, maka kamu rasa kamu juga perlu bernikah. Pernikahan adalah sesuatu yang sangat suci dan ianya memerlukan pengertian, pengorbanan dan kesabaran. Kesabaran bukan bertahan utk seminggu dua atau sebulan atau setahun. tapi kesabaran itu perlu utk membuktikan kamu beriman kepada Allah dan RasulNYA.

Kepada pelajar2 yg telah bernikah di usia muda dan masih belajar, saya merayu kepada kamu semua hari ini...tolong jangan terlalu dipaparkan kemesraan kamu di facebook. jangan terlalu menunjukkan kesronokan bernikah di facebook. saya mohon dengan setulus hati saya. tolong kurangkan posting2 romantik kamu di FB. Saya tidak mahu lebih ramai pelajar yang merasakan seronoknya bernikah.Tapi mereka lupa bahawa di sebalik keseronokan pernikahan itu dipenuhi dengan tanggungjawab yg amat berat.

Dan bukan semua orang bernasib baik mendapat pasangan hidup yang baik. Jadi, cukup2lah kamu berposting tenatng bulan madu kamu, hentikan dialog2 romantik kamu di FB, ucapan sayang dan cinta itu simpan utk tatapan kamu dan pasangan kamu saja.TOLONGLAH....saya merayu daripada kamu. Dan kepada pelajar2 yg masih berfikir tentang bakal suami atau isteri, berjumpalah dengan mereka yg lebih arif tentang hidup. Mintalah pendapat mereka tentang mencari pasangan hidup. Ingatlah anak2ku, adik2ku..pernikahan bukan satu percubaan, tapi satu tanggungjawab yang amat berat. Saya tidak sanggup melihat kamu menangis...tidak sanggup sebab saya sangat sayangkan kamu. jaga diri kamu baik2.

psttt: amik iktibar. bersedia unt segala kemungkinan.



Wednesday 25 July 2012

puding roti with custard cream


salam ramadhan.
pejam celik dh 5 hr puasa dh. 

so as i.m a fully unemployed ;) hehe i think i need to do some suri rumah work lah 
or else nnt ttnya2 sniri 2bulan cuti buat apa ya? haa kn diri sniri xtau nk jwb.. 

i've plan to make or 'learn to make' dessert or cookies or cakes or lauk2. hhehe..bnyakk kn nk buat. haha ok . planned 1 by 1 lah.

today my first dessert IS....

PUDING ROTI WITH CASTARD CREAM

tadaaa.. 




ni lah hasilnya after baked.

bahan-bahan :
8 keping roti
2 cup susu segar
4 sudu besar gula
2 sudu butter (cairkan)
2 biji telur
1 sudu esen vanila
1 sudu tepung jagung and
kismis sesuka hati.

cara-cara :

1. campurkan susu segar, gulam butter, telur, esen vanilla and tepung. gaul smpai sebati.

2. carik2 kan roti dalam acuan. dan taburkan kismis.

3. curahkan campuran 1 td ke dalam acuan. biarkan menyerap.

4. bakarkan selama 20-25 minit. (180 *C)

for custard cream.
masakkan 1tin susu cair,gula garam secukup rasa dan 2 sudu tepung custard. tu je. sng kn..



nak lg sedap serve with apple asam boi..
mmg sedap.

selamat mencuba =)



Friday 20 July 2012

daisypath count





our lovely date.

we have been together for

6 years and 3 month.


pasti ada pasang surut in 
relationship kn. =) 
just pray for the best.
and hope everything goes well..

Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you.
 They are not perfect but are always perfect for you. 


welcoming ramadhan


salam. 
holy ramadhan is just about to come. 
this year i.m almost 22. alhamdullilah giving chance to meet ramadhan again.
may this ramadhan be a month of blessing, 
full of forgiveness and guidence for me, family and all beloved.
ameeenn.

selamat berpuasa dan bertarawikh.
-spiritual purification-






Tuesday 17 July 2012

dearly missed them soon

assalamualaikum.

gonna leave s.alam tomorow. 
longgg holiday before entering another phase.
enjoy puasa + raya = kt rumah..hihi

the end of my 1st degree. 
viva done.
thesis submited. 
waiting for graduation =) excited..haha

and will missed my dearly friend soon.
take care everyone.
see u in september ! hopefully.


our SCHOOL =)

si cantik dan comel. syikin, tika, anis, ila, ili n kak janna =)

wawa n d geng Star.
  
 will missed anis husna lah nnt.

with anis nd wanis senget =P

kak janna =)

beloved classmate.

beloved uni.

see u soon !!
take care everyone.




Tuesday 5 June 2012

Monday 4 June 2012

moment 'lejer hijau' -part 2

assalamualaikum,
sayang2 sekalian....malas nk potpetpotpet..tgk laaa gmbaq nii
rinduuuuu kn time2 tuuu..

jamuan akhir tahun 2007 b4 spm

 classmate.

besties.

 cik doctot n cik akauntan

 ni time latihan nak p haji. hehe ingat dk?


 form 3 pics. 
thomas loh org US dh la ni.





 bestiessss

deskmate-auni farsha



BILA LG NK GATHER2 NI ??




Friday 25 May 2012

ed - procedure done

attachment at ed was superb compare to now at medical dep. bohhhsannnnn. huhu =(

sepanjang 6minggu tu i've given chances to do certain procedure. mula2 mmg xberani buat but i need to do it now or later kn.. at least i'm trying. 

1) insert branula

                                              types of branula. different colors different size.

insert branula or doc orders to 'set line'. fx to push in fluid n medicine in line.

2) taking blood

taking blood for lab investigation

3) wound dressing

wound dressing or 'cuci luka'.
 this is bed sore of pt with diabetes mellitus. pic from google. but i do it real. 

after dressing the wound then cover it with bandage.
luka dicuci dgn sterile water/ normal saline/ iodine. 

4) given ATT injection

ATT- anti toxoid tetanus. 
given to pt that exposed to wound. this is to provide immunity protection n prevent them from 'kancing gigi' or lockjaw.

5) eye irrigation

procedure done to remove foreign bodies in eyes. 

6) ear syringe

procedure done to remove foreign bodies in ears. such as ear wax blockage.

7) T&S (toilet n suture)

suture the open laceration wound. need a very technical creativity. 

8) intubation

this procedureis as an alternative way of correcting pt airway n breathing. 
usually done for critical pt in resussitation. i practically learn on doing it but not in real pt. 


masa mula2 attach dkt ed ni suma procedure ni xtau n ada xpnah dgar pn. tp skrg dh tauuuu.. ramai yg sudi mmbntu n ajar buat all the procedure. thanks. 




Wednesday 23 May 2012

emergency department (ed) -intro

assalamualaikum.

here i am ! 
lama xmenjengah my page nih. nk update about my new activity kt spital pn xsmpat. and i do read my frens update their intern life. suma hepy n best dpt buat something new kn.. n now rasa ada time sket blhlah nk sharing2 . 


my first day went well =) di pg isnin 2hb april. jam 8 lg dh kt spital n my first time get into HSAH. haha
mcm biasa la kn kna lapor diri dkt mngement, n ada bbrapa org houseman baru lapor diri jg. smpat la kenal2. ms tu dlm ht ckp 'bestnyaa depa ni dh jd doctor dh'. suma freshie lg. 

then, pg dekat ED untuk lapor diri dekat HOD, Dr Zainal Effendy. his quite buzy. but then he ask another doc to show me around, jmpa staff2 n kasi briefing skit2. memandangkan i'm alone there doc tu ckp ni anak sedara dia. hehe. thank doc. appreciate it. =) lepas tu mula lah pengembaraan sorang2. but after few hours rmai dh kawan. bnyak bnda yg xtau. hhuhu. then i keep asking all the instrument usually used. penuh buku for 1day. student2 nurse, houseman, ppp bnyak mmbntu. xkurang jg ada yg usik2 gatal kn.

dekat ED ni system laen skit. there got primary triage, secondary triage, green zone, yellow zone, and red zone or resussitation. usually walk in patient yg dtg akan di 'triage' kn dulu oleh ppp or pem peg perubatan. they will take notes n group kn patient ni ikut severity of pain or disease. then they call in into the secondary triage for ppp and nurse to check all the vital sign n condition of patient. ada jg yg skit nya xda pn tp buat2 skit untuk amik mc je. kt cni la dpt di buktikan penipuannya, hehe. org mcm ni akn di suruh balik je. n xkasi pnya nk enter next room jmpa doc. nnt doc yg mrh kt org yg incharge triage tu. after secondary triage tu baru blh msuk jmpa doc at GREEN zone. yg enter green zone yg skit biasa2 je mcm demam btuk slsema pening2 skt perut. takes time jg lah unt govern hosp kn. patient rmai n they keep waiting. n 1 think i realize org yg dtg cni mostly yg berpendapatan rendah. yg mampu msti rasanya dh pg clinic, hosp swasta or bli ubat kt pharmacy instead of waiting for too long kn. kt cni blh dpt treatment n ubat for just RM 1. sgt murahhhhh.

YELLOW zone. most interesting case i'd seen here. patient yg enter this zone usually semi-critical cases n bring in by stretcher or wheeelchair. here patient will got immediate treatment. all the vital sign recorded, take history from patient or from family, do physical examination to know the disease or pain  that the patient complain of. then doc will give medication n monitor pt for several hours before they allow to discharge. if pt condition worsening they will send them to ward according to the disease diagnose.

enter the RED zone only the critical cases. usually motor-vehicle accident (mva) or having polytrauma injury, heart disease such as myocardial infarction, stroke, and shock. they need a very2 fast treatment n all procedure done here must be done in group. pt smpai je siren pn bbunyi and suma doctors akn dtg merawat.

ok. continue nnt pulak ehhhh...
sgt bnyak pengalaman dikumpul kt ED. rasa mcm suma xtau. tp mgkin jg sbb xstart clinical years lg n blum di exposekn dgn dunia reality yg sbenar lg. so bnyaklaa yg xtau. the happiest thing is bnyak procedure dapat buat dgn jayanya. besttt. next entry i'll story k.

take care.



Sunday 1 April 2012

clinical attachment

assalamualaikum.
selamat pagi ahad.

time is toooo fast.
sekejap je dh bulan APRIL 2012.
n tomorrow is the day!
2nd april.
hopefully everything will be good n nice to me.
a new phase in my life as med student begin tomorrow.
i wish to gain new experience n learn as much as i can there.
starting my internship at EMERGENCY department is somehow interesting n amazing, i guess n hope for it.
i dont know what to expect. but i'm the one who really2 fortunate for having this chances.
emergency department is one of challenging department in hospital. cases is unexpected. all must be in fast n furious.
teori dan practikal adalah dua proses pembelajaran yg berbeza tp asasnya adalah ilmu yang sama. i'm went through all the theory classes n tomorrow i gonna apply it. but for me practically tu lebih mudah untuk diingat n dipelajari coz it is done by people itself.



i need to be prepared. ask for anything n everything. 'malas bertanya sesat jalan' kn. be nice to people. treat n make people comfort to be with me. all is for my own good.
semoga semua doctors, med assistant, nurses and other staff sudi membantu n memberi ilmu kepada sy.

saya budak baru belajar,
kalau salah tolong tunjukkan.

dear friends, wish them all the best ! xkira di mana jua anda ditempatkan. (HRPZII, Hsultanah bahiyah, HSA, Hputrajaya, Hp.pinang, H teluk intan, umra, al-islam, klinik2 dan lain2). sama2 kita menimba ilmu. gudluck ! enjoy it.

p/s : semangat nk g keja. sempat lg pg tempah bajuuu kurung.. alasan : baju kurung xcukup.  thanx mama! layan je la anak dia yang suka melaram nihh..

i just can't imagine how i gonna be there tomorrow.
takutttt n nervousss sesangattt !
mama n abah. doakan kakak.
semoga ALLAH mempermudahkan semuanya. aminn.




Sunday 25 March 2012

welcome home !

bye2 shah alam.
huhuhu.
sedih meninggalkan n ditinggalkan kawan2.
keep in touch yaa..

but..
really miss home. 2 hari lg pn dah xblh tggu dah.
so semalam decide no matter what nk blk jg harini.
nnt handbook for practical tu my friend tlg pos kn. hehe tq kak solehah.

n finally i'm home. yeayyyy !
alhamdullillah selamat sampai.
as always, my way home with pancaran matahari.
'menyinari perjalanan anda' cewahhhh promote nii.
best+cozy+adaaa astro. hehe siap layaann cita bicara hati lg td.
pastu tdooo je smpai la dh nk smpai bru bgn.

                                                                                           
                                                                   
















p/s : td masa kt bus station seksyen 17, zaty terjumpa irine nadia marcello with her tunang. comel kecik je irine tu. n tunang dia muka mcm EA. btulll ! xtipu. they are on their way to be husband n wife. muda sgt lg..



Friday 23 March 2012

she's not that strong


she hurts and she cries, but u can't see the tears in her eyes ='(  because she just smile =)

di pagi hri air mata ni tumpah jg. huhuhu
pastinya bersebab.
makin hr makin terasa.
dia jg mungkin punya sebab.
sgt sensitif hati ini bila melibatkan dia.
mungkin ini dugaan dan cubaan untuk saya dan dia. 

lately ni hari2 menangis. but no one knows. malulah menangis depan org..menangis sorg2 smpai puas. after that i'll feel better. n sibukkan diri buat kerja. if x kerja pikir psal dia dia dan dia lg. nk ckp pn xtau sbb apa yg xkena. but it feel different. sebab my msg kt fb dia yg dia xreply pn air mata ni blh turun. apatah lg sbb laen. sbb xnak gaduh2 just keep it alone. n i know he too. no time to $%#%#&!@&

a long time love. need a new formula for a refreshment. if i'm trying n he doesn't do anything,no point. sia2 jg.
both need to make a move.

I NEED, I WANT AND I MUST BE STRONG !


Wednesday 21 March 2012

less is more


the less is the more.
jom join the campaign girls !
bermakeup tebal n over tu xsemestinya cantik.
simple = natural beauty = more beautiful.
just be confident.
it will show our beauty to the max.
(jgn terover confident pulak ye. hehe)

lets support this campaign.
my ea awal2 lg dh pesan, no bulat2 merah kt pipi tu. hehe
being simple is the best way.



graduan bms =)

HARI2 TERAKHIR.
yg teramat buzy.

anis husna- sis jannatul adnin- me - awanis ( camerawomen)
will miss them.
enjoy to the max. before berpisah.
GUDLUCK FRIENDS !

add on pics..hehe
create a moment to be remembered.
with awanis yg senget. weee jgn marah.